Tuesday, February 1, 2011

"Good Black Man" is just code for" Nice Guy" ,Don't Get Played!

Screen capped from a thread full of misogyny towards Black females.

Does this argument sound familiar?

I think some Black men feel, like the White men, entitled to women's bodies because of the good deeds they do.

As a retaliation for getting "fucked over" by getting rejected, used ,or mistreated by other Black women, the entire race of women gets thrown under the bus. 

The problem with their reaction to female rejection as opposed to the White male's reaction is that, we can't afford to throw one another under the bus as a race, let alone the entire female population of Black women, who are supposed to be the lowest of the low in the racial ladder.





More Fun Quotes!:
Mister Misogyny Wrote:

Uh....

NO.

Black women checked the fuck out about 30-40 years ago.

They abandoned black men and the civil rights movement.....

All in the name of Women's Lib.

And that's the REAL reason why black women are "on their own"

All they know how to give black men nowadays is disrespect, disloyalty, and good plain ol' fashioned attitude.

Yeah, they made their beds. Now they need to STFU and lie in them.

 So by this, I assume that since the Black woman "left" the Black man's foot for an attempt at her own liberation from the racist misogyny both White men and Black men subjected her to, that Black men ,according to the OP of this quote, should not help Black women at all.

There are often some hard-hitting consequences for denying Nice Guys, or in this case Good Brothers complete obedience and adherence to Black patriarchal standards of what is a good Black woman, but it hits harder when Black men perform this act on Black women.

It reeks of a racial, social vengeance that reminds me why many Black women began to take interest in Feminism.


___ Wrote:
You didn't answer the question.  Would you say that black women are on their own?
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Man: Most definitely yes,.  And they did it to themselves.

Thirty plus years of "I don't need a man" and "Nice guys are boring", plus the constant mean-mugging, shunning of decent black men, inability to cook, obesity, and most of all cleaning out black men's finances and net worth in divorce court.


Are you really surprised that most black men with any sense are avoiding black women like the plague?
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Does this sound familiar to you? Isn't it quite identical to the angry White American Man who abhors American Women? All that's left, is to compare how good White women are to Black women. Thankfully, he didn't say that. Dang , and I had my bingo card out,red pen and all! Oh "Good Brothas", you would be ever so humorous if it weren't for the whole throwing me under the bus racially because you got burned.




Also, why did the first poster I quoted felt the need to tell BW that BM are "opting out"? Haven't many of them already done so by abandoning their wives,children,avoiding child-support,avoiding taking care of their children,busting one in several women,impregnating them and then leaving? Trust me, many Black women feel BM have opted out a long, long time ago.


Really now. I believe those who consider themselves a good man or woman, usually don't go around complaining how good they are and how they aren't reaping rewards for being good.

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